Some “schools of life” need to go through, having experienced everything first hand. But it is better to receive separate experience in absentia - in order to avoid unpleasant, but quite predictable problems.
Forcibly cute will not be Considering that it is possible to fall in love with a person, solely on the basis of his external data - it means risking being greatly deceived. Of course, this does not mean that you should completely give up on yourself and completely abandon makeup and stylish clothes. But the novel, in which one of the partners loves for both sides, and the other only allows himself to love, alas, has no future.
As feelings say Everyone expresses his love in his own way. And clothe their feelings in acceptable expressions. But, sometimes, a lot of beautiful words more than replace committed or not committed deeds.
Love another - but don't forget about yourself If you love him, you should not stop loving yourself. You should not confuse vanity with narcissism. But, at the same time, one should not change his essence for the sake of another. Only by remaining yourself can you nurture and strengthen strong love.